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  1. Qualitycontrol

    Qualitycontrol Porno Junky

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    True story: They were in love and married to each other . They were both about 27 years old. He was an attorney and she was a housewife who had a Bachelors Degree. They did not have kids . They had been married about 2years.

    One summer day, he was involved in a car accident. Because of the accident he was paralyzed from the neck down.

    What should the wife do ???

    :(
     
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  2. namzahc101

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    Stay & help. She'd be a real cunt if she left him when he needs her the most. For better or worse remember?
     
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  3. ladygodiva123

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    If she meant those vows she took, then obviously she should stay with him and care for him.
     
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  4. don man

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    Marriage is a lifetime bond and union. "for sickness and in health"

    If that was all bullshit on her part then she should fuck off out of his life and let people who care about him look after him. She sounds like a bitch for evening thinking about leaving
     
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  5. xiara74

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    She's a young woman and has needs. She could devote her life to looking after him, but who's going to look after her?

    The marriage vows work both ways. He should grant her her freedom.

    He's selfish if he wants her to sacrifice the rest of her life because of his condition.

    x74
     
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  6. oldiegoody

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    If I were the guy, I would insist that she leave. If she wouldn't i'd get a divorce. I'd also be looking for a country that allows euthanasia, have myself transported there, he's a lawyer so he must have enough money, dictate a letter to her, telling her how much I love her and that my dieing wish is that she embrace her life without me to the fullest and enjoy it.:rose::rose: Then I'd have them check me out for good.!
     
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  7. Jeffieboy

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    To those who think she would be a bitch if she left. Until it happens to you, you can't say anything. I have seen first hand what an illness or as in this case an accident does to each person. You have hopes and dreams for you life together. Then one day it is all taken from you. The one you love is no longer able to do the things you were going to do. Who you were going to be together as a couple. As one. Everything you dreamed of is gone. There is anger an sadness in this for years after. The one taking care of the other is unable to live their life as planed. That person is left to not only care for themselves but for the other. Resentment sets in.

    It will change the care giver and those around them. It takes a toll on all who are involved in it. There are many outcomes in this. Some turn on the person they are caring for. They may abuse and neglect the one they are caring for. The one they once loved. They then begin to hate that person and blame them for what has happened or where they are. They are changed for ever.

    So before you pass judgment on her, put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself this question. Could I do it? Could I spend years 10-20-30 years taking care of someone in this way? Every day?

    To put it in easier terms, it is like having a baby 24-7 for 30 years. Could you do it? You can't just call the high school girl down the street to watch them. You can't just put them in a crib and hold and rock them when they are cranky. You can't leave when you feel like it. Who will watch them? Who will feed and change them?

    Could you do it?
     
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  8. Jeffieboy

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    I agree 100% with you Sir.
     
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  9. Jeffieboy

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    I agree.
     
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  10. deadly_dalia

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    I think she should stay.
    And have sex with women.
     
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  11. Qualitycontrol

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    But what about her sexual needs? They still love each other ( I think) but he can't hold her. He can't fuck her.

    Should she spend the rest of her life getting her sexual needs met by masturbating? Should she surreptitiously take on a lover?

    It is a real dilema. I know that many of the wives of our brave soldiers fear this....

    :(
     
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  12. xnxxbob

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    I agree with this.

    My lovely wife expressed these exact concerns to me shortly after being diagnosed with a particularly aggressive cervical cancer. God took her from me a year later. We had only been married for 3 yrs. At 27, my career was just taking off, but I was able to put work on hold and with help from family and friends, kept her home much of the time. It is still painfull to talk about.

    Every couple should have this conversation.



    Jeff, I agree with what you said also.
     
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  13. Qualitycontrol

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    There should be a book of true stories of women whose husbands were paralyzed by an accident or a bombing, maybe in Afghanistan, and how these women dealt with their sex lives and how they dealt with their lives in general....

    My guess is that such a book would be compelling to read, maybe a bestseller.

    :eek:
     
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  14. downwind

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    What's her BA in?
     
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  15. diegs

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    Should definitely stay. I think if the guy was understanding he'd allow the woman to fulfil her desires elsewhere if the woman stayed by his side.
     
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  16. xiara74

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    If this would work, then it's a good idea.

    But it could upset him even more. . .

    x74
     
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  17. xiara74

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  18. quin76

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    I think it's different with each scenario and too many variables to say a definite answer. Some instances I could see the relationship staying strong but in others I could see the wife leaving or the husband out of love wanting the wife to leave and start anew.

    As someone stated before.. until any one of us are in that awful situation we would never really know.
     
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  19. Jeffieboy

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    What about men that have wives that are paralyzed or ill and handicaped?
     
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